Showing posts with label goals and intentions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label goals and intentions. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

On Dreaming a Dream


With all the previous talk about dreams and recipes and goal setting (and meeting!) I've taken a bit more down-time than usual to jot down the top 10 things that I would like to have.

An overall recipe, if you will.

Here's what mine looks like:

  1. My own studio where I can paint and be creative
  2. Traveling Experiences
  3. Stillness
  4. A Family
  5. A rewarding career... that pushes me to grow and expand as a person
  6. A mixture of sweet stylin' clothes
  7. A successful etsy shop filled with all my crafts
  8. Toyota Tacoma or 4-runner
  9. To find my place in a supportive group of friends, and business peers
  10. A Happy Spirit
Overall, I have created my very own mission statement for the rest of the years of my life.

"Take All the time I need, find all the answers I seek, and do all the traveling I want to fill my life with health, happiness, and love"
I really do believe that the more effort we put into creating our ideal lives, the more the universe aligns itself to provide us with the lives we've imagined.

Sometimes, the hardest part really is figuring out what we actually want.

xoxo Shan

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Tuesday, July 13, 2010

On Where I Am Today


Isn't it funny how easy it becomes, when faced with challenges, to forget about all about the accomplishes (or progress in general) we've already achieved while on our journey.

Tunnel vision is a tricky thing. Although it keeps us motivated in moving forward and reaching our goals, it also prevents us from looking back at the road we've recently traveled. As a result, it keeps us focused on what has not yet been done, rather than what has been.

So, in light of all my forward based thoughts, I decided to pull off at a rest area (metaphorically, not literally!) and consider my top accomplishments since the beginning of 2010.

Getting started wasn't easy (by any means!), and it certainly involved getting comfy with my blankets, my journal, and my puppy for encouragement and support.

By the end of it all, this is what I came up with:
  • Tried out a new furniture arrangement to attempt to achieve the perfect creativity nook. It's a work in progress, but at least it's working!
  • Connected with wonderful people via Twitter and absorbed a ton of invaluable information
  • Started an official savings account (something that was never a priority in the past)
  • Launched You Squared, which was many years in the making, and an exciting celebration once launched.
  • Made significant progress on my debts, which ironically is right on track to the goals that I set six months ago (and haven't looked at since I wrote them out)
  • MC'd a wedding with 150 guests (which has got to be my biggest challenge as of yet!)
When I write new goals, I separate them out based on when I would like to complete them (mostly in 6 month increments). When the six months go by, and I open up that folded piece of paper to review how I did, I always find it incredible just how bang-out some of my goals are.

I actually forget writing down the majority of them, and yet I somehow reach them.

If that isn't a testament to the power of positive thinking, I'm not sure what is.

Does anyone else experience this? How do you go about setting goals for your future? Do you end up meeting them?

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Monday, July 12, 2010

On Being Afraid

I tend to put things off because I'm afraid.

Not because I'm afraid of change (I actually thrive for it) but because I'm afraid of getting stuck.

One of the biggest challenges for me lately, as I work to expand and push outside of the comfort zone I have been living in the for the past 3 years, is running into things I'm not quite sure how to work through.

I'm learning how to work through things that before 6 months ago, I knew nothing about. I'm learning to realign my priorities to work towards my goals. I'm learning how to step out of my comfort zone and build a network of my own. I'm slowly learning how to ask for help, and where to look for advice.

Even still, however, I get stuck - and it is a scary feeling. Which usually results in tucking the project aside for a couple of days until I work up the courage to tackle it again.

There are a few changes going on around these parts right now. Some of which are easy (changing the layout - woohoo!), and some of which are downright scary for me (deciding on the organization, goals, and site map of this virtual space of my own).

Sometimes it seems like I still need to renovate certain areas of my life before constructing the shape of this place. If only I spent more time on the mat, or if only I read more inspiring books, or (finally) if only I got out there and exposed myself more to highly inspirational people.

But you can only stay on the sidelines waiting for the answers to come to you for so long.

I'm learning sometimes you need to jump to change, even if you know the growth will be painful, and possibly drawn out.

How to you deal with the uncertainty of change, and the possibility of getting stuck?

What sort of things keeps you on the sidelines, and what helps you make the jump?




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Monday, May 3, 2010

I'll take a coffee in my pj's please

Oh the joys on working from home.

I read (and fantasize) about it somedays - like today for instance. Thanks to Miss Mommy Is Moody I ran across this article about how to convince your boss to let you work from home.

Sign me up and call me Sally, or Sue, or heck, even Barb. If I get to type away on policies and procedures while in my snugglies wearing marshmallow slippers, I would be the happiest chick on the planet.

I might not even shower.

Well ok, I'd shower, but maybe not until 2pm. That's still hygienic, right?

In all seriousness though, I think it's rather neat when you look at the statistics of people who work at home (either part time or full time). It's neat to look at how the economy is changing, how jobs themselves are changing to allow people to complete their work via laptops, blackberries, and various forms of PDA's.

My grandparents would be appalled.

Gone are the days where the majority of people need to be at their desk before they clock in. Like the Brad Paisley song so efficiently states, we can now effortlessly hold video chat conferences with people halfway around the world.

In the not so distant future, I will have to explain to my (future) children, that in the olden days, people used to have to hand-write letters and send them to one another by something called Canada Post, and it would take up to 10 days for our friends and/or family to receive the letters.

They'll be shocked! I'm kind of excited for the day I get to tell stories of having to walk 10 km to the local post office, up hill, in the snow, both ways.

But I digress. What I did actually want to write about was working from home, and what all the hoop-la has been about in the past little while about all this flexible time.

Let's weigh the pros and cons of working from home, mmmm, shall we?

Exhibit A - pro - You could wear your pajamas if you wanted to. Heck you could even wear your birthday suit (although, I would prefer to think that those weird telemarketers working from home are clothed when their calling me).



Exhibit B - con - Pretty sure image 1.1 below may be a slightly bigger issue in said snugglies and in the comfort of your own home.


Exhibit C - pro - taking the dog for a walk just got a heck of a lot easier, since you get to take your break, enjoy some companionship, and get ourdoors all in one go. Now who wouldn't feel refreshed after that?


Exhibit D - con - There are a ton more snacks in my house than there are in my office.... (need I explain where this one is going?)


Exhibit E - pro - No limit on type or volume of music

Exhibit F - con - Possibly become slightly more concerned with the dancing to said music than completing any actual solid work.

So, as far as I can tell, working from home is definitely a win-win for the employee, and most likely a gamble for the employer allowing said actions. Awesome. Which means my chances of working from home any time soon is pretty much slim-to-none.

Becoming self employed just might have moved a bit higher up on my priority list (with the slight possibility of a reduction in billable hours due to the new glee soundtrack).

Love to chat more folks, but I'm off to work!

Over and Out.

[disclaimer - this article was written for pure amusement and does not depict what I do/would do while working on company time. I simply wanted an excuse to use pretty pictures (again) from weheartit.com /end disclaimer]

Thursday, April 15, 2010

Dearest Universe...

.... I would very much like a cricut and they are on sale at Michael's right now.

Bring me one?

(k, thanks)

Friday, January 22, 2010

pretty flowers | made.for{you}cakes & party.planning

[last week, Jess brought me home flowers for our anniversary. So i brought them to work]

Also, I have a very exciting [but brief] announcement to make.

Introducing...

made.for{you}cakes & party.planning

a joint sister collaboration of personalized cakes, party planning & other joyous lovelies.

website
& flickr galleries currently in progress, but now available for browsing while we continue to construct!

Some of the party planning services we offer

- development and design of theme
- co-ordination of venues, entertainment and food & beverage
- photography services (at affordable rates)
- development, design & creation of custom invitations, place-cards, thank you cards, etc.
- planning & co-ordination of on-site games (including but not limited to: children's & adult's birthdays, baby showers, bridal showers, scavenger hunts etc).
- advisement and/or purchasing of prizes (easily theme related, if desired)

Please feel free to contact me at madeforyoucakes@gmail.com or visit [www.madeforyoucakes.blogspot.com] for further information

Friday, January 1, 2010

25 things i want more of in 2010

[inspired by this post by meg fowler]

1. time spent in coffee shops
2. traveling
3. peace
4. writing
5. home cooked meals
6. time at the gym [this is not a new years resolution, i honestly to truely enjoy it]
7. dinner dates with friends
8. movie nights
9. positive thoughts
10. board games
11. yoga classes
12. scrapbooking
13. balance
14. shoes
15. brunches at Loose Caboose
16. strength
17. knitting
18. photography
19. baking
20. bubble baths
21. patience
22. books
23. creativity
24. braveness
25. live music

happy new year!

Tuesday, June 23, 2009

learning is a wonderful thing

I seriously do not remember the last time i have learned so much.
It definitely hasn't been in the past 2.5 years that's for sure.
To tell you the truth, i miss it immensely.
I am a self proclaimed geek that if, given the chance, will spend hours soaking up information.
Or simply reading.
As this whole "customized blog" thing is new to me, i have learned today that...
..dun dun dun...
i have plenty to learn!
flickr, photobucket, gimp, colorzilla, sifr conversion, and let alone blog/blogger/blogspot have all challenged my brain at least for a moment or two today.
and it makes me feel alive!

Over the next few weeks i will be adding more photos, updating more often, and will probably be making a few more changes.

Go Me!

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